tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-49583195263907075712011-04-21T18:29:34.823-07:00Warning: Not your typical fans siteJB's fanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12817655858232419567noreply@blogger.comBlogger51100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4958319526390707571.post-70990304555054740852008-03-02T03:09:00.000-08:002008-03-02T03:16:36.015-08:00<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style=";font-family:SimSun;font-size:72;" lang="ZH-CN" >我要减肥</span></span><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style=";font-family:SimSun;font-size:72;" lang="ZH-CN" >！！！</span></span><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style=";font-family:SimSun;font-size:72;" lang="ZH-CN" ><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style=";font-family:SimSun;font-size:72;" lang="ZH-CN" >起码先减她个五公斤</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style=";font-family:SimSun;font-size:72;" lang="ZH-CN" ><br /></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /><span style="font-size:180%;"><span style=";font-family:SimSun;font-size:72;" lang="ZH-CN" ></span></span><span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size:72;"><o:p></o:p></span></p><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4958319526390707571-7099030455505474085?l=ilovejenniferbeals.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>JB's fanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12817655858232419567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4958319526390707571.post-32090889078557086712008-02-24T03:32:00.000-08:002008-03-02T03:13:59.433-08:00Do you want to succeed quickly or fail slowly?<br />Are you a performer or learner?<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4958319526390707571-3209088907855708671?l=ilovejenniferbeals.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>JB's fanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12817655858232419567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4958319526390707571.post-1935096198497503752008-02-17T00:48:00.000-08:002008-02-24T03:28:51.884-08:00<span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;"> 曾听过一个故事。说有一个人担着两筐茶壸去集市上卖，在经过一个山坡时，几个茶壸从筐里掉出来，摔了个粉碎。他头也不回地向前走，这时有人提醒他说：喂，你的茶壸摔碎了，你还不快看看！这人回答说：既然已经摔碎了，看又有甚幺用呢？</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span style=""><o:p></o:p></span> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 24pt;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">是啊，茶壸都已经打碎了，破碎不可能复原，要紧的是往前走，停来至多就是叹息一番，懊悔一顿，又能怎样？结果不但白白浪费了时间，弄不好还可能会因为分神而打碎更多的茶壸。</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span style=""><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 24pt;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">人生在世，随时都会有意想不到的事情发生，有时远远比打碎一只茶壸要严重得多。面对</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">得失成败，不同人有不同的态度，但患得患失却是不少人的通病。原文「其未得之也，患得之；既得之，患失之。」是</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">说在没有得到的时，害怕得到，既然得到了，又害怕失去。面对得失，斤斤计较，瞻前顾后，犹豫不决，吃着碗里，看着锅里，想着兜里。「得之若惊，失之若惊」</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">这是患得患失者之绝症。</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span style=""><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 24pt;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">在汉语里，</span><span style="">"</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">舍得</span><span style="">"</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">一词，最有哲学的味道。舍得，舍得，有舍有得，小舍小得，大舍大</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">得，不舍不得。孟子就说过，「鱼</span><span style="">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">我所欲也</span><span style="">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">熊掌</span><span style="">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">亦我所欲也</span><span style="">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">二者不可得兼</span><span style="">,</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">舍鱼而取熊掌者也。」圣贤若孟子，当两者不可兼得时，也只好识趣地舍次求</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">主。凡事有利必有弊，有得必有失，有失必有得，你在这得到一片地，你在那可能会失去一片天，正如针无双头尖一样。对于得到的东西，要知道珍惜，对于失去的东西，要尽量胡涂，不要过分计较，就像卖茶壸的人一</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">样只管向前看，往前走，这是智者之举。</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span style=""><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: 24pt;"><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">先贤说，</span><span style="">"</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">欲得之必先予之</span><span style="">"</span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">，人不要总想学会如何去得，而是要学会如何去舍，懂得了</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">付出才会懂得取得，有付出才能有回报，没有无回报的付出，也没有无付出的回报，付出越大，回报越大。即使一时失去或得不到，也可以以退为进、以守为攻，一旦时机成熟，就会反失为得，人最难的就是舍掉自我，往往只</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="ZH-CN" style="font-family:SimSun;">想取，而不想予，只想得，而不想舍，贪得无厌，最后常常失去更多。不付出而图回报，天下哪有这样的美事？</span><span style="" lang="ZH-CN"> </span><span style=""><o:p></o:p></span></p> <span style="" lang="EN-GB"></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4958319526390707571-193509619849750375?l=ilovejenniferbeals.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>JB's fanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12817655858232419567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4958319526390707571.post-91948714391143481532008-02-07T01:57:00.001-08:002008-02-24T03:19:46.311-08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp2.blogger.com/_D4RNFmBDxgc/R6rhfutkt3I/AAAAAAAAACI/4OgGJftqB5Q/s1600-h/A0408.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_D4RNFmBDxgc/R6rhfutkt3I/AAAAAAAAACI/4OgGJftqB5Q/s400/A0408.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5164187857965070194" border="0" /></a><br />"Sometimes, Hem, things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those times. That's life! Life move on. And so should we."<br /><center><p><span style=";font-family:arial,sans-serif;font-size:85%;" > </span></p><div style="text-align: left;">The greatest mistake a man can ever make is to be afraid of making one. So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because that's where you will find success.</div><p style="text-align: left;"><br /> </p></center><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4958319526390707571-9194871439114348153?l=ilovejenniferbeals.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>JB's fanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12817655858232419567noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4958319526390707571.post-526802741589105542008-02-02T02:17:00.001-08:002008-02-24T03:21:33.441-08:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp0.blogger.com/_D4RNFmBDxgc/R6RD3utktsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/9hZGWyut4A8/s1600-h/Matthew_Shepard_Honors_8.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://bp0.blogger.com/_D4RNFmBDxgc/R6RD3utktsI/AAAAAAAAAAo/9hZGWyut4A8/s320/Matthew_Shepard_Honors_8.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5162325697584477890" border="0" /></a>There has to be something about this lovely lady. I am totally amused and enchanted by her, as an actress, as an individual.<br /><span style=""><span class="a"><br />An intelligent, elegant, down-to-earth, unconventional, thoughtful woman ... such a delight.<br /></span></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4958319526390707571-52680274158910554?l=ilovejenniferbeals.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>JB's fanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12817655858232419567noreply@blogger.com0